Focus on what you know and believe in, manifesting the life and future you desire
Self-limiting thoughts and beliefs, planting seeds of doubt in our mind
Have you ever been told that you can’t do something because of x, y, or z? Of course, you have. All of us have heard such remark at some point in our life, unless you choose to continue living in imaginary world, then, of course, everything and everyone is perfect. But the real question here is, did you agree with such statement? Unfortunately, many people do listen to and agree with such statements, especially if it comes from someone they look up to and respect. But, did you ever stop and ask yourself how accepting self-limiting beliefs can limit your personal growth and future, both personally and professionally? I hope that you did, because, only you can truly know what you are capable of and have potential in achieving in life. So, the less we focus on what other people think of us or our abilities, then more opportunities we have to find success and happiness in life.
Where did our confidence and decision-making power go?
Why do we continue to listen to opinions and recommendations of others when they do not take our wants, needs, and goals that we care about? Because, it is easy to simply agree and move on with life. We do not have to prove ourselves to those that doubt us, which means less work if any at all for us. In the mean time we are making a choice to stay where we are, stop seeking anything more, stop learning and growing ourselves. Who wins in such situation? Well, most definitely not us, since we’ve made a choice to give up on our dreams and aspirations.
How can we change? How do we go from a place of low confidence and self-esteem to a place of winning and proving everybody wrong, by achieving everything that you said you were going to achieve?
A good place to start is to listen to what your heart is telling you, not someone who expects you to fail or question your abilities. Do what you feel will help you to move forward in achieving your goals and dreams regardless how difficult or far away the finish line may be. What’s important is knowing and reminding yourself every day that you can achieve that what you know and care about deep inside of you. Nobody knows you the way you do, so don’t sabotage your future by creating limiting beliefs that do not exist. Also, by accepting the statements that you cannot do or achieve something, you are telling the universe that you are not ready for anything more at this time, if ever, and close a window for new opportunities to find you while remaining where you are. You can do that or take your own future in your hands and show everyone who is or has doubted you all that you are capable of achieving.
Listen to your won heart and mind, and not interpretation of your goals by others. You can achieve that what you truly believe in
Please don’t listen to me of what to do, listen to your heart and mind. I don’t know your unique goals and dreams, so who am I to tell you what you should do. Only you know what perfect life and future looks like in your own mind. However, what I am sharing with you here are my own personal struggles and experiences I had to learn, recognize, and overcome in order to get crystal clear on what I expect and will achieve in life and career, regardless what anyone thinks, says, or does, trying to convince me otherwise. Create your own motivation, don’t wait for help to come and find you. Seek out opportunities, don’t be afraid of new and unknown, when your current ways do not yield expected results. Change them, create your own opportunities and go after them without doubt, because, you can achieve that what you believe in. Focus on what you know and believe in. Only you know your limits and what you can achieve. As Walter Bagehot put it: “A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do”
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