Article 195 - Being responsible for the lifestyle that we strive for

Creating positive experiences and welcoming changes into our lives

We all go through life with a goal to create the lifestyle that we want for ourselves and our loved ones. However, such journey could be very and filled with many different experiments, trials, happy moments, as well as disappointments. How we look at each moment determines our path forward or results in no movement or progress at all, and it all boils down to our attitude to whatever is happening to us at any given point in time.

Let us just say that a new career opportunity requires us to make changes in our personal life, such as relocating to another city, another state, or even another country. Do we accept such opportunity, without knowing what all will happen next, or do we turn it down and stay put? That all depends if we are ready for a new challenge which could potentially help to get us closer to the life that we want to create for ourselves, or if we are not ready or unwilling to change anything in our present, and are unwilling to accept new challenges, because, we are afraid that we will not like what new change may bring. For example, upon relocating to another state, one individual who is open to and ready to accept changes, would embrace everything that they have and everything that is happening around them – new home, different environment, new neighbors, etc. And then, another individual who was presented with the same opportunity, would dislike everything and constantly be in the negative state of mind, just because they did not want the change, and now anything that differs from their past, will be rejected. Does the most recent scenario create favorable conditions to build the dream lifestyle that we want for ourselves and our loved ones?  No, it does not. Because, no matter how good things may get, we would view them in the negative light, and would not accept potentially great opportunities into our life.

For good and positive things to happen, one must be ready and willing to accept changes and new opportunities into his or her life. Also, it is equally important to have an open mindset, understanding that things do not always go as planned, and that occasional roadblock will present themselves to us from time to time. However, when we have an open and positively-focused mindset, when we have an optimistic outlook on life, and ready to embrace everything that life gives us, then with time and hard work, we will create the life that we always wanted and dreamed of. When we create positive energy around us, more positive energy we will attract to ourselves, and the other way around. So, if you are ready to welcome change into your life, keep an open mind, be ready and willing to accept changes and new opportunities, and simply be happy.